Western Girls VS Girls from S.E. Asia

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Dating Western Girls VS S.E.Asian Girls












































The Girls from Vietnam

• Femininity: 5
• Looks: 5
• Attitude: 4
• Intelligence: 5
• Conservativeness: 4
• English: 2

I’ve lived in Vietnam for about three months total and I love Vietnamese women. They are smart and hard working, yet feminine people with cheery attitudes. Vietnam can be a difficult country to live in, but they are a resilient people. I believe their resilience through thick and thin comes from the Vietnam War and, going further back in time, its rich history with multiple dynasties feuding for power. Like Thailand, Vietnam is predominantly Buddhist. They have a higher level of intellectual curiosity about the world, more so than other Southeast Asian girls. Many are curious about foreigners, and will even approach you to take selfies or to practice English with you. Generally, Vietnamese women have bigger tits and asses than Thais due to the Chinese genetic influence from the North. Indeed, northern Vietnamese women have a distinct Chinese look.

Other than minor nose jobs, plastic surgery or skin whitening creams are less popular here than in other Asian countries. The Vietnamese seem to embrace their authenticity both in appearance and personality. However, they generally are quite conservative. Premarital sex is forbidden and promiscuity is publicly shamed. Of course, many girls do it on the down low. In public, they are self-conscious about being seen with a foreigner, so they will not kiss you in public. But in private, they get very enthusiastic during sex. They finally get a chance to release that pent-up sexual energy (and the smile on their face after they finish is priceless).

If you are looking for a place to party and take home a different girl every night, Vietnam is not for you. But if you want a long term relationship or even a wife, Vietnam might be a good place to look if you are patient enough to give it several dates and learn some Vietnamese. If you wanted to know what dating was like in America circa 1950s, Vietnam might be worth a look. Personally, I have much more engaging conversations with Vietnamese girls than Thais, Indonesians or Filipinas. Even with a lower level of English, Vietnamese girls have more going on up in their brains. If they like you, they might even make an effort to improve their English.

My current Vietnamese girlfriend didn’t have good English when we first met, and conversation was a little painfully slow at first. But in the past 4-5 months, her English has improved by leaps and bounds. Frankly, I’m amazed how she picked it up so fast as English is not an easy language to master. The other side to their higher intelligence, however, is that they can be quite cunning if they want to. Caveat emptor. The problem with Vietnam is if you don’t speak Vietnamese, you have a small pool of English-speaking women to work with. A little effort spent in learning Vietnamese will open up a much wider pool of higher quality women for you.

Remember, Vietnam is far from a first world country and the amenities you are used to will be more expensive and harder to come by. Still, if you have a Vietnamese girl who likes you, she can help you get better deals instead of constantly getting overcharged with foreigner prices. You’d be able to travel to beautiful places and exotic beaches up and down the coast on a budget. The bottom line is Vietnam can be a great place to meet girls if you are patient, willing to learn the culture and language, and meet people through social events other than bars or nightclubs.














































The Girls from the Philippines

• Femininity: 5
• Looks: 3
• Attitude: 5
• Intelligence: 3
• Conservativeness: 3
• English: 5

Filipinas are among my favorite girls in all of Southeast Asia. They exude so much sweetness and femininity, it’s enough to melt the most bitter and black-hearted man in the world. They really know how to take care of a man and how to make him happy. Plus, one of the best things about Filipinas is that they speak English! The middle-class ones or higher will be nearly fluent in English, and these are the ones you should go for—not the poorer ones who might be more after your money over your personality. The higher up in class they are, the better educated. But the gap between the rich and poor in the Philippines is absolutely staggering and the poverty is crushing. Although most Filipinas are average and plain-looking, it is not hard to find some beautiful ones. Despite the growing obesity problem in the Philippines, high birth rates lend an almost unlimited supply of young Filipinas eager to meet a gentleman who has his shit together.

The look of Filipinas vary from north to south. In the north, on the island of Luzon where Manila resides, the girls tend to be taller and a bit whiter. In the south, especially around Visayas where Cebu is, or further down in Mindanao where Davao City is, they tend to be a little shorter and darker. Many Filipinas have some Spanish blood, so bigger asses are more common among them than Thais or East Asians. I don’t doubt that other Southeast Asian girls would do the same for you if you got sick, though. Filipinas are exceedingly sweet and affectionate—it can almost be too much. If they really like you, she will cry when you are apart even just for one day. It’s how they express their feelings for you. As a whole, Filipinas are conservative. Most people in the Philippines are Catholic.

They are extremely loyal to their families, even to a fault—for example, consistently putting their families ahead of their own spouses, or even giving half of their paycheck to their parents. Still, despite them being conservative, they are extremely curious about foreign men and sometimes see them as a way out of poverty. So if you visit the Philippines, you will likely have no problem finding a girl to sleep with. Some girls are even willing to go straight to your room and get down to business, especially if you stay in the Makati area of Manila. However, girls who do that are probably not the best relationship material.

If you can handle living in a third world country with lots of poverty, understand their deep-seated cultural loyalty towards their family, and have the sense to screen out scammers or bad prospects for a wife, the Philippines could be a great place for you in the long term. It can also be good for a short visit and to sleep with lots of girls, but many Filipinas are now catching onto guys who travel to the Philippines just for that purpose—they call them “fuckboys”. Instead, I would encourage guys who go to the Philippines to find just one girl they actually like, and take her on a trip to one of the 7,000 beautiful islands with fresh seafood, white sand beaches and clear blue-green water. Trips like that are far more rewarding than constantly chasing tail.

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Girls from Indonesia

• Femininity: 3
• Looks: 4
• Attitude: 5
• Intelligence: 4
• Conservativeness: 4
• English: 4

If you’re walking down a random street in Jakarta, you’d be hard pressed to find a stunner. Most Indonesian women are plain looking and a little rough around the edges. Many are somewhat plump. Although I’ve spent only a limited amount of time in Indonesia, I’ve met quite a few sexy Indonesian ladies. They can be found off Tinder, at the malls or at bars and nightclubs.Nightclubs are the best place to find the real stunners in Jakarta. You might also find them in Bali, but you’re more likely to run into other tourists there from Russia or Australia. As a foreigner in Indonesia, people will stare at you. Even—especially—the girls wearing hijabs. Prepared to get stared at like a rare piece of meat when you visit. If you’re traveling off the beaten path in Indonesia, the first thing to understand about this country is that it is predominantly Muslim.

A solid majority of Indonesian girls are very conservative and will not have sex until marriage. But there are some who would happily engage in oral or anal sex to preserve their hymen, so if you are looking for a wife, you still need to do your due diligence. In the cities like Jakarta or Bali, many girls are much more liberal when it comes to sex before marriage. Like Filipinas and some Thais, some would come directly to your room and get straight to business. These girls are surprisingly open-minded when it comes to no-strings-attached sex or being fuck buddies. If this happens to you when you visit Jakarta, it’s highly likely that she’s done this before.

For example, if you stay in the Thamrin Residences—a famous and well known apartment complex for foreign travelers—and she says, “Oh yes I know Thamrin, I’ve been there before”, this is exactly what I’m talking about 99% of the time. Wrap it up! Most Indonesian girls speak passable English, so you will not have much trouble communicating with them. You can even find girls who will have interesting conversations with you. Like the Vietnamese, they are hardworking and driven people—hungering for an an edge in life and to stay out of poverty. Jakarta is not an easy city to stomach for more than a week at a time.

The pollution, traffic with incompetent drivers, minor inconveniences adding up daily, random rainstorms, expensive alcoholic drinks and a lack of fun things to do can be tough to deal with on a daily basis. Many people opt to go straight to Bali instead. The more adventurous travelers will usually spring for an itinerary from Jakarta to Surabaya, Yogyakarta, a strenuous hike up a high-altitude volcano, and finish it off with a few relaxing days on a nice beach before heading home.












































Conclusion on Southeast Asian Girls

Despite these differences, Southeast Asian girls in Thailand, Philippines, Vietnam and Indonesia have a lot of similarities. They are feminine, sweet and know how to treat a man. Let’s hope it stays this way because I have seen and heard anecdotal cases of Western influence creeping into these countries in recent years. Nothing to be alarmed about yet, but I worry that Southeast Asia could be a very different place 20 to 30 years from now compared to today. Although there’s no way to know which country you will like best until you visit and meet at least a few girls, I would personally recommend starting with Thailand first if you have never been to Southeast Asia before.

Unless you’re an experienced traveler feeling extra adventurous, visiting a “second-world” country like Thailand is a sensible introduction to Southeast Asia as opposed to diving straight into a third-world country. As I wrap up this post, which I hope you find useful, I’ll leave you with this one last tip—please treat Southeast Asian girls right. I implore you to do your best to not break their hearts. Because if you hurt them deeply, they might turn just as bitter as the caricatural Western woman we all love to bash. Oh yeah—there’s one more thing you need to know… and I promise you this is not a joke… Superstitions run very deeply in Buddhist countries like Thailand and Vietnam. They believe in ghosts, so keep that in mind before suggesting to watch a horror flick in your room…