Meeting Girls in Ho Chi Minh City

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The Girls and Freelancer Scene in Ho Chi Minh City

The capital of Vietnam is one of the more popular cities in Asia among tourists because there is plenty to see and do here. We will begin with the best nightlife for meeting single girls in Ho Chi Minh City.

Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

We know you will just want to find out the cold hard facts so here is a list of the best nightclubs and singles bars to pick up Ho Chi Minh City girls:

Glow Skybar at 93 Nguyễn Du, Bến Nghé, Quận 1
Chill Skybar at AB Tower, 76A Lê Lai, Phường Bến Thành, Quận 1
Republic Club at 19 Do Quang Dau, Pham Ngu Lao Ward, District 1
Lush at 2 Lý Tự Trọng, Bến Nghé, Quận 1
Qui Cuisine Mixology at 22 Lê Thánh Tôn, Bến Nghé, Quận 1
Ellui Nightclub at 107 Pasteur (5th Flr) Ben Nghe Ward, D1
X-Club 030 at 21 Tôn Thất Thiệp, Bến Nghé, 1
Envy at 74 – 76 Nam Ky Khoi Nghia, D1
New DC Club at 148 Cống Quỳnh, Phường Phạm Ngũ Lão, Quận 1
Acoustic Bar at 6E1 Hẻm 6 Ngô Thời Nhiệm, Phường 7, Quận 3
2 Lam Son at 2 Công Trường Lam Sơn, Bến Nghé, Quận 1
Seventeen Saloon at 103A Phạm Ngũ Lão, Quận 1

The main area for singles nightlife is District 1 and luckily enough this is also the main area where most tourists stay. You may also see it listed as ‘Quan 1’ from time to time, and it is actually a very large area. Most tourists who visit stay somewhere between Bui Vien Street, Pham Ngu Lao, and Saigon Square. Bui Vien is full of cheap hotels and hostels, and this whole part of town is loaded with bars, nightclubs, and things to do. If your goal is to try and get laid then District 1 would be the best area for you. If you wanted to ‘experience the real Vietnam’ then maybe stay somewhere like District 3 which isn’t too far away and is much less touristy.

A couple of quick notes on the singles nightlife here, the first that in Southeast Asia it is very common for there to be prostitutes or hostesses at clubs or bars. We did not list a couple of the main bars in Ho Chi Minh City where prostitutes generally work, they definitely aren’t good spots to find a one night stand if you don’t want to pay. But any club here could have some call girls in it. Some bars or clubs will also have hostesses working, you might get a VIP booth and then some sexy girls will sit with you if you want to pay extra. This is very common all over Asia, for a western guy who plans on hooking up just avoid these hostess bars and know that you are just paying to flirt, not to get laid.

Meeting Ho Chi Minh City girls during the day is going to be tricky unless you speak Vietnamese. Most girls you come across here will know very little English, and what they do know is mostly for reading and typing, not speaking. You can try to hit on other backpackers around Bui Vien during the day, or approach local Vietnamese girls hoping that they are one of the few you can communicate with. The best spot for day game has to be Saigon Square and Nguyen Hue Walking Street which are basically connected. This is a big area with many shops, cafes, and where people come to take selfies. It is very touristy and you will see groups of girls walking through all day and night. Some other malls and shopping districts where you could try to meet single girls in Ho Chi Minh City during the day would be: Saigon Square, The Crescent Mall, Takashimaya Vietnam, Vincom Center and AEON Mall Tan Phu Celadon

Plus there are cafes on every street corner here which will have unlimited options for cold approaches. Another good place to pick up sexy ladies is the Saigon Soul Pool Party which runs every Saturday from November through July at the New World Hotel. If you plan to go to this day party then staying at New World would be a great idea. That way if you do meet a hot girl you can invite her up to your room to see your fish tank.

Chat with Girls Online

This is one of your better options to meet girls today and to set up a date night soon for a few reasons. The first is that you can start to meet girls in Ho Chi Minh City online before you arrive in town. It is always nice to show up with some numbers in your phone, isn’t it? Second, the language barrier is going to be vast here. Walking up to a girl at Saigon Square is rarely going to lead to hooking up and nightlife can be very hit or miss. These days many girls go to clubs to take selfies, not to actually meet or get laid. When a girl signs up for an online dating site you know why she is there.

So which dating site is best? Vietnam Cupid would have to be the top pick, it has the most female users, you should find hundreds if not thousands of cute single girls in Ho Chi Minh City using it. Try to log on a week before you visit and message as many pretty women as you can, it is always a numbers game after all. See which ones have an interest in you and then begin to line up your dates once you get into town. Vietnam Cupid will really speed up the dating process here and give you the best chance to hook up or find a long term girlfriend.

Ho Chi Minh City Dating Guide

Now that you are fully caught up on where to meet singles near you our Ho Chi Minh City dating guide needs to fill you in on the rest. Most Vietnamese women are pretty slow to hook up, you are often going to need to work a little harder on your date night than just offering to Netflix and chill.

Try visiting one of these romantic restaurants or cocktail bars:

Temple Club at 29-31 Tôn Thất Thiệp, Bến Nghé, Quận 1
May Restaurant & Lounge at 56-58 Bùi Thị Xuân, Phường Phạm Ngũ Lão
La Villa French Restaurant at 14 Ngô Quang Huy, Thảo Điền, Quận 2
Xu Restaurant Lounge at HCMC, 71 – 75 Hai Bà Trưng
Home Finest Restaurant at 252 Dien Bien Phu Street, Ward 7, Dist 3
The Alley Cocktail Bar & Kitchen at 63/1 Pasteur, Bến Nghé, Quận 1
The Lighthouse at Level 6, 104 Nam Kỳ Khởi Nghĩa, Bến Nghé, Quận 1
Thi Bar Saigon at 224 Đường Đề Thám, Phường Phạm Ngũ Lão, Quận 1
Racha Room at 12-14 Mạc Thị Bưởi, Bến Nghé, Quận 1

Another good spot for a date night in Ho Chi Minh City would be the old apartments they turned into bars and cafes at Nguyen Hue Walking Street next to Saigon Square. You will find many places there to grab a drink and have a chat together. One way to show a Vietnamese girl a good time would be to take her out for karaoke. However you need to pick this wisely, don’t go to any that have sexy girls standing outside inviting you in, or one where girls will join you in the room. Make sure it is a family KTV or you might give her the wrong impression entirely.

It is probably better to meet a girl for a quick coffee and then take a walk outside. There are numerous parks all over this city, some that are worth checking out are: Le Thi Rieng Park, Rin Rin Park, Tao Dan Park, September 23 Park and Saigon Zoo and Botanical Gardens

But outside of those there are many others and you can just choose the one closest to the café you met at. Considering the language barrier and the low rate of first (or second) date hook ups planning a full night out with a girl on the first date is a bit aggressive. If you are staying in or near Bui Vien grab a coffee nearby, walk around the park in Pham Ngu Lao, head over to Ben Thanh Market or Saigon Square and then proceed from there. If you are clicking and want to spend more time together then go for it, if not maybe set up a late night date with alcohol involved for round 2 and see if it goes any better. The Cu Chi Tunnels are another cool place to visit during the day, as are these museums and landmarks: Ho Chi Minh City Museum of Fine Arts, Museum of Ho Chi Minh City, War Remnants Museum, Dragon Wharf, Thien Hau Temple, Independence Palace.

Tips For Tourists & Expats

Most tourists stay in District 1 in the Pham Ngu Lao and Bui Vien area. There are plenty of moderate hotels and some nicer options near the main singles nightlife areas. One important thing to note is that most hotels in Ho Chi Minh City are not girl friendly. That means if a guy checks into his room alone he may not be able to have female guests visit him. There are lists of girl friendly hotels online, but many of them are old and we can’t confirm if they are legit or not. The simplest way to work around this is to ask the hotel directly before you book. You can also book the room for two and mention your girlfriend will be arriving in town later that night, but if the front desk notices you bringing in different girls each night they may call you on it. Just ask before you book and this won’t be an issue.

Remember: many girls here are very conservative. This is not like some other Asian countries where any white guy can hook up as much as he wants. You generally are going to have to go on a few dates, and even then they may not be ready to get laid. If all you care about is getting a quick hook up before you leave town you are probably better off looking for other like minded tourists around Bui Vien.
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Scam Alerts

Be careful with guys/women on bikes that will approach you in the street show pics of a great line up of girls then invite you to a nearby hotel all inclusive about equivalent 2500 bhat. You will then have a line up outside the hotel of say 6 girls of decent quality average age 22 - 25. You are expected to pay the woman who takes you there upfront before you even get in the hotel for your all inclusive package ?? You and girl enter hotel the woman who took you there has now gone.

First part of it all going wrong is the hotel wants 1000bht equivalent for your use of room - so it is not all inclusive. You have already paid 2500 bht so unless you pay the extra 1000 the money is gone. So you pay and off to the room again. Now it goes well down hill because as soon as your in the room the girl wants a tip before anything happens as she will tell you she does not get any of the 2500 you parted with.

If you dont pre pay a tip the girl is not up for any real play and dont waste time arguing, that you have already paid, that a tip is something additional that you give for good service effort etc, waste of time, that smiling girl off the street is no sporting a face like thunder. So you ask how much is pre play tip, its 2500 bhat and actually equivalent to the initial payment. Now you feel like the least horny that you have ever felt in your life, at best with no tip you may get the least interested hand job your now limp bits have ever had. Give up argue, be pissed off as hell, mainly at yourself for being so stupid having thought yourself very mongering savvy and leave being a min of 3500 bhat equivalent down for zero fun or gain.

This scam scenario is very common or variations on it , if you are asked for money upfront, WALK AWAY its just far to likely to go wrong, wont be every time, sure there will be exceptions but you will only know when you are at the least 2500-3500 down ???
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Blowjob Bars in Ho Chi Minh City

So, what happens inside a Blow Job Bar in Vietnam ?
Unlike in other countries blow job bars in Vietnam are typically camouflaged as barbershops. Most of these barbershops are located in District 1 and District 5. There is usually a small lobby once you enter the premise. You will then be welcomed by a receptionist or a cashier where you will be asked to pay. Best thing to do is to hand them money straight – so better to check out their prices online before coming to the place to avoid getting ripped off. Otherwise, if you ask “how much” or if you think twice, this will be a red flag for them that this is your first time and you have no idea what you are supposed to do. Standard rate is usually 120,000 VND.

Unlike other soapy massage parlors where you get to pick your girl from a fishbowl, Ho Chi Minh girls are usually lined up in the hallway. It is more like whoever is in front of the queue. It does not hurt to pick, but that is not usually what the practice is. The place is quite small more likely a cubicle where there is a barber chair that you can recline all the way up. You will be asked to sit on the chair and you will get a shoulder or little back massage (probably to keep you relaxed). There’s no one red light district in Ho Chi Minh, they are kind of all over the place. Once the massage is done, you will then be taken into a small room – really small with a frosted glass. There is a little privacy because you actually what is going on at the other room and you can definitely hear! No Vietnamese ladyboys work here, but if you’re unsure just ask them, they won’t mind.

There is a reclining chair that goes all the way back as if you are lying down. Then you pull your pants down. Girls working here have some sort of a kit – usually consists of wet wipes to clean you up. First is that she will clean your nipples, dick and nut with baby wipes before she starts to give it a little bit of fondling. She will lick your nipples until she slowly goes down. As she blobs up and down, you will get to have the chance to touch her tits. Note that most of these Vietnamese girls are between 19 to 25 years old, slim with light skin and average looking, but they are not really bad. So going back to the dirty deed – these girls suck like a porn star! They will suck the jizz out of you so they will try to get you as hard. Once you cum, she will keep your load in her mouth until she finishes wiping you off.

Most of these girls are nice and friendly and you can give them a nice tip for the quality service they provide. You can tip them for a minimum of 120,000 VND but it does not hurt to give her more than that if you feel that she has given you more than what you expected. Here are some of the famous hot tocs or BJ café in Ho Chi Minh City. There is also an address provided for your reference, just make sure that you give the taxi driver the exact district as some street names are the same with other districts.
  • 84 Nguyen Phi Khanh
    Located on District 1 at Nguyen Phi Khanh, so if you are planning to go here you can Google map the exact address which is 84 Nguyen Phi Khanh. This place is a little bit shady because as mentioned BJ bars or cafes are illegal. Those who have been to this place can say that this bar is quite good with fair price.
  • Tran Hung Dao
    Located on District 5, this is also one of the BJ café that has young and not-so-bad-looking ladies. Gives great service and also reasonably priced.
  • Ben Ny 110
    Located on Dien Bien Phu at Binh Thanh District, Ben NY 110 is probably the most popular BJ bar in Ho Chi Minh City. Foreign expats and tourists seem to visit this place when looking for a quick way to release their load. This is also quite popular among locals. The place not so hard to find because there is a big sign saying “Benny’s” right at the front. However, the rate is quite expensive because it can go as much as 400,000 VND. This used to have the rate the same as with other blow job cafes but because of its growing popularity and horny men seem to flock this place, management saw opportunity to increase its rate. While this is not too bad for foreign men because it is just a couple of USD, but for local men it is expensive. Women at Benny’s are young and hot looking, probably the reason why there are so many men visiting the place.
  • My Tien
    If Benny’s is quite crowded or jam packed, there is another option which is just a couple of feet away from it. It is called My Tien which is located at 90 Dien Bien Phu of Bihn Thanh District. They also offer “wash and blow” for a reasonable price.
  • 267 Thi Tap
    Gives you the best value for your money – the upside is that the place is clean and has really private areas. Most of the girls working here are good looking so you would probably want to give them a fuck and not just them giving you a blow job.
  • Q10 on Su Van Hanh
    Another one on the list is the hot toc located on Q10 on Su Van Hanh. Small and cozy and gives a great bang for your buck.
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